Butt plugs are one of the most popular sex toys in the world right now, and rightly so. They can be used by both men and women, they are easy to use and they can induce the most intense orgasms. In contrast to dildos, which are designed to move in and out, butt plugs are shaped so they can be inserted and then stay in that same place. This creates a full sensation and a great deal of pleasure. Indeed, when you orgasm and your pelvic floor muscles contract, you will have a more intense experience than you would without the plug.
When you are trying to figure out how to insert a butt plug for the first time, there are a few things that you ought to keep in mind. Firstly, remember the importance of foreplay. Your butt hole does not have a natural lubricant, so foreplay can be a huge help. Moreover, reaching orgasm before trying anal play can help too.
Lube! Lube! Lube!
It cannot be stressed enough – find a good lubricant. For this, you will need to be familiar with materials used in sex games so if you are not, sit yourself down and do some research. Lubricating your hole will reduce the risk of tearing, and you should trust that this is a risk you want to keep reduced. After drowning your plug in lube, you can choose to insert the plug in one of three ways:
- Doggy style, on all fours
- Missionary with pillow, on your back
- Squatting cowgirl style, hovering over the plug
You will need to hold the plug in position, angling it at 45 degrees (or slightly towards your tummy). First you need to slide the tip inside, and when you feel comfortable you should slowly push the plug in further. It is when it reaches the sphincter muscles inside that you may start to feel pain or discomfort. Relaxing is so important at this stage, as it will really help things go smoothly. Some people find that it helps if you pretend to drop a number two so give this a go if you are really struggling with the pressure.
Once fully inserted, feel free to romp round in whatever way you please – whether that is masturbating or sex with your partner. Either way, get ready to experience some new sensations. Now inside, you can leave them in for several hours if you wish but be sure to re-lube every hour to avoid discomfort. When you come to remove them, be slow and gentle – never just yank it out, no matter the reason. It’s always interesting to have a Butt Plugs for some fun and feelings.
Not just for sex, the butt plug can be used in a variety of ways. A dom may tell his sub to wear their plug to work, or out to dinner. You might even want to wear it casually around the house if you enjoy the way it feels or if you are in training for something bigger. It totally depends on your preference but if you are creative, you will have an undeniably fun time. Just be sure you know how to insert your butt plug safely and don´t forget the lube!