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How to Insert a Butt Plug: A Beginner´s Introduction

Butt plugs are one of the most popular sex toys in the world right now, and rightly so. They can be used by both men and women, they are easy to use and they can induce the most intense orgasms. In contrast to dildos, which are designed to move in and out, butt plugs are shaped so they can be inserted and then stay in that same place. This creates a full sensation and a great deal of pleasure. Indeed, when you orgasm and your pelvic floor muscles contract, you will have a more intense experience than you would without the plug.

When you are trying to figure out how to insert a butt plug for the first time, there are a few things that you ought to keep in mind. Firstly, remember the importance of foreplay. Your butt hole does not have a natural lubricant, so foreplay can be a huge help. Moreover, reaching orgasm before trying anal play can help too.

Lube! Lube! Lube!

It cannot be stressed enough – find a good lubricant. For this, you will need to be familiar with materials used in sex games so if you are not, sit yourself down and do some research. Lubricating your hole will reduce the risk of tearing, and you should trust that this is a risk you want to keep reduced. After drowning your plug in lube, you can choose to insert the plug in one of three ways:

  • Doggy style, on all fours
  • Missionary with pillow, on your back
  • Squatting cowgirl style, hovering over the plug

You will need to hold the plug in position, angling it at 45 degrees (or slightly towards your tummy). First you need to slide the tip inside, and when you feel comfortable you should slowly push the plug in further. It is when it reaches the sphincter muscles inside that you may start to feel pain or discomfort. Relaxing is so important at this stage, as it will really help things go smoothly. Some people find that it helps if you pretend to drop a number two so give this a go if you are really struggling with the pressure.

Once fully inserted, feel free to romp round in whatever way you please – whether that is masturbating or sex with your partner. Either way, get ready to experience some new sensations. Now inside, you can leave them in for several hours if you wish but be sure to re-lube every hour to avoid discomfort. When you come to remove them, be slow and gentle – never just yank it out, no matter the reason. It’s always interesting to have a Butt Plugs for some fun and feelings.

Not just for sex, the butt plug can be used in a variety of ways. A dom may tell his sub to wear their plug to work, or out to dinner. You might even want to wear it casually around the house if you enjoy the way it feels or if you are in training for something bigger. It totally depends on your preference but if you are creative, you will have an undeniably fun time. Just be sure you know how to insert your butt plug safely and don´t forget the lube!

Prostate Orgasms: A Quick Guide

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Learning about sex in school was an awkward, clunky experience. Something I hadn’t picked up on until recently, however, was how we are taught that sexual satisfaction is reached internally in women and externally in men.

No exceptions. No details. Nada.

We certainly weren’t taught how to prostate orgasm.

How To Prostate Orgasm

Strange that we would be taught this, since it seems that men are now so preoccupied with the idea that their sexual gratification must come from ejaculation that they won’t even entertain the idea of anal play.

However, activities such as prostate milking are actually really important for your health and it should be something you are doing quite regularly.

For those grossed out by the whole idea, you can perform an external prostate massage – you will probably find that you enjoy it and you might even think about introducing it into your masturbation routine.

However, the likelihood of reaching orgasm through external massage is slim to none. You need to dive in for that.

Many men report that prostate orgasms are more intense, and you can even experience what is known as a dry orgasm several times in one go.

Welcome to multiple orgasms, boys!

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What should you remember?

Prep – any anal play needs prep. If you forget the prep, forget the game! Your safety and comfort is important, as is your personal hygiene so don’t get caught up in the moment – especially if you are a beginner. Figure out what douching is and give your body a good flush before you reappear.

Lube – lots of lube. You will also need to check that the lube will work with whatever material your prostate massager is made of. If it’s silicone, you will need a water based lube. Stainless steel will usually be okay with anything – just do your homework

Search – your prostate tends to swell when you are aroused, so this is the ideal time to start looking. The ideal place to start looking is towards the back of your perineum (the squishy bit of your gooch). If you want to try for an orgasm , try practicing the universal ´come hither´ gesture and see where it takes you.

Pelvic Floor – use it! You might see blog posts or fitness vlogs about pelvic floor muscles for women but nobody tells the men that they should be taking notes too!

Strengthening this area will make the contractions in prostate-assisted orgasms much more intense. The greater your control of your PFM, the greater your reward.

Toys – having someone else around can help bring some playful to the prostate party, with some vibrating models that stimulate your p-spot for the ultimate orgasm.

Try It Out

Give it a go. Explore your boundaries.

Conclusion

Many men report that the sensation they experience is similar to an external orgasm but it lasts longer, feels more intense and can be felt across their entire body. It is important that when you are trying to experience new kinds of play, like learning how to prostate orgasm, it is important that you do your research.